Meditate on the lotus

Meditate on the lotus By Nancy B. Loughlin Published in News Press on August 2, 2016  While navigating tough times, you remind yourself, “This, too, shall pass.” When it’s all over, you will be transformed, new. But the passing can be agony. At these moments, meditate...

Know Thyself: What is adventure?

Know Thyself:  What is adventure? By Nancy B. Loughlin Published in News Press on July 26, 2016  The adventurous life involves risk, exploration and living the extraordinary. But are you an adrenaline junkie?  Do you mainline dangers like a drug? Thrill-seeking,...

Everyone has a past, dealing with shame

Dealing with Shame By Nancy B. Loughlin Published in News Press on July 19, 2016 Everyone has a past. Shame can be part of the package. It may have been something you said, you wrote, you wore, you did or you thought.  It may have been ten years ago or yesterday. ...

Reflections on fighting for freedom

Reflections on fighting for freedom By Nancy B. Loughlin Published in News Press on July 12, 2016  Our quests for “freedom” are bondage. Battles over our guns, abortion rights, health care, imbibing our drugs of choice and marrying whom we choose can be noble causes,...

Five ways to combat survival mode

Five ways to combat survival mode By Nancy B. Loughlin Published in News Press on July 5, 2016 You’re just trying to survive, and that’s no way to live. You know when you are in survival mode.  You fear losing your job.  You fear for the physical health and safety of...

The quest for unconditional love

The quest for ‘unconditional love’ By Nancy B. Loughlin Published in News Press on June 28, 2016 The phrase “unconditional love” is redundant. If love is conditional, it isn’t love. Recently, Kirtan artist Missy Balsam performed her original song “Unconditional Love”...

Working the plank meditation

Conquering long-term projects with the plank meditation By Nancy B. Loughlin Published in News Press on June 21, 2016  Big achievements require time and effort investments. That second master’s degree is two years.  Reading War and Peace will consume a summer.  That...

Release the past with floor backbending

Break the hold of the past By Nancy B. Loughlin Published in News Press on May 3, 2016 It’s hard to be in the Now when the past clings to our feet. Can we be more flexible with the things we carry?  Can we cherish our hardships that cultivate our compassion and...

Drop the baggage with “metaphor of the line”

Drop the baggage with “metaphor of the line” By Nancy B. Loughlin Published in News Press on  April 25, 2016 How do we stop fixating on our perceived flaws, past hurts, disappointments and deficits so they stop sabotaging our happiness today? A wise man drew a...